Here are some things to understand about resistance
- Resistance shows up everywhere at any time, any place, and in anybody.
- Resistance has a loud mouth while not saying a word.
- Resistance has and will ruin relationship and other parts of your life.
- Resistance will not be quite under stress.
- Resistance will stop you from getting out of bed.
- Resistance will force you to do the easy things in life in which lead to nowhere.
- Resistance will make you be someone you don’t want to be.
- Resistance will never, ever, go away.
- Resistance will make your life better, Strange right.
Why resistance shows you who you really are. Sometimes the very thing that seems to be out of reach is really right in front of you. When you put things in perspective, suppose you needed to make a business call, but you hesitated based on hypothetical outcome never fully realizing that, that very call could change your whole world. This in a sense is your life in one phone call, thought provoking right. This is in fact the job you never took, the trip you never planned, the place you never went, the person you always wanted to talk to but didn’t, the great idea you had, but never saw through. Strange enough, at the end of the day, all you really have is memories of everything you wish you ever wanted to do. You may choose one way, but resistance will chose another, but there will be a choice on your behalf no matter how you feel, think, live and so on.
Learning from resistance
We as individuals have a built in program that is suggested by many in which we choose non stressful situations for the sole purpose of self-perseverance. This is due to the way we visually and mentally view our world around us in which our brains can’t distinguish, such as the feeling of falling in dream state where reality and fantasy hold the same mental event. Psychologically, you are what you perceive yourself to be because your choices are a reflection of thoughts on a subconscious level. With this in mind literally, resistance is there to show you something that may not be working, or you may need to learn something else in order to obtain the outcome you’re looking for.
It is said that insanity is doing something over and over again expecting a different result, and this is exactly why resistance plays a huge role in evolving as an individual. Many times what may seem as a bad situation, is indeed setting you up for something you never saw coming. Let’s say, you got a flat tire and walked to a store and along the way you picked up a lotto ticket, and all the while you were cursing your life. However, that never night unknowingly your life is change forever. There are many instances of why things happen, but if you trust the universe, it will deliver.
As you can see, resistance may seem like a huge weight on your back that won’t shed, but 99.9 percent of the time if you’re experiencing a struggle, you are probably on the right path. If you listen to many successful people, the one thing they all share is that they are well aware of everyday pain and daily grind, and if you listen to such video’s we are all a part of the same mold. Furthermore, the main point they all make is to get up out of bed and show up, but this is where heart and determination goes a long way. To break it down, you never really know what you’re truly made of until you figure out what it takes to do something. If you can do that, resistance is fuel for whatever it is you’re seeking.
There are many ways to overcome things that seem to be set in stone, but the main motivating factor to consider is belief. I was always told that if you don’t believe in yourself no one will, which is true because anyone that ever became anybody will tell you that it is a lonely road to the top, or whatever it is you choose to do. Some things to consider are,
- What are your reasons of doing something of importance?
- Who are you doing them for?
- Timing (There is never a perfect time)
- Help (if you need help ask)
One thing to keep in mind is that everyone has setbacks, which some have more than others, and once you realize this most of the needed tasks will be bearable. Such as life, there is never a perfect time to start something; you are your own motivating driving force. This is why belief is such a strong word because it will help you complete each task by knowing you are going to where you want to be. One such way is compartmentalizing tasks, in which you break down the hard parts to an easier and understandable language you can understand. This is why asking for help, or seeking answers goes a long way. Personally I’d rather talk to someone that has already been down a path I’m heading because they are familiar with the obstacles I will surely encounter. This applies to everything in life, if you need help ask.
I’ve wrote a post here that talk about the same things that pertains to “visualization what can affirmations do for you?”. Basically it states, if you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hand is a way in which our thoughts have the power to transform the physical world around us. That is why affirmations and hypnotherapy works so well because they are directly communicating with the subconscious resulting in a physical change. In addition to this, there are also binaural beats that claim to change features like eye color, hair, weight, and so on, but again belief is the ultimate determining factor.
check this out. Interesting. “The future of wealth manifesting”
We are all on a different path were we are guided by what ultimately makes us happy, or should. You should never listen to the naysayer’s because they are speaking from a place of insecurity and regret where they wished they would have started something or completed. You never really know what or who you will meet and learn along your journey because the people that you do met will probably change your overall outlook on life. While things will definitely be difficult along the way, you will truly see what you are capable of, all the while life is testing your resistance on how bad you really want a certain outcome. Likewise, what you never saw coming can really be a blessing in disguise depending what you’re seeking. This is my take on the matter, what motivates you?
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